10 hints on how to avoid an argument

10 hints on how to avoid an argument

Most of the guys only realise this with time – women have a very good memory, especially when it comes to “solved” issues. Small arguments can escalate to large ones within minutes, when she starts listing other things that you have done wrong. Unfortunately, as history has shown us, you will not be able to change this fact. However, what you can do, is avoid it. The simplest way to avoid those arguments, is not to do the list of things that she is likely to bring up. Therefore, here are the list of things that often come up and the ways to avoid making those mistakes.

Forgetfulness.  It seems that we usually forget things that, for some reason, are very important to her. The reason why we forget it simple – it’s not important to us. It is unlikely that “buying lemons”, “booking a dentist appointment” and calling her sister to wish her a “happy birthday” will ever be on our priority list. So, the easiest way to avoiding this argument – write it down. If you have the latest gadget that you are happy with (mobile phone, organiser) – put it there…not only it will remind you but it will also be much more fun, as you get to use your gadget.

Lateness. In any part of the world, lateness is always associated with a lack of respect to the person’s time. The easiest way of avoiding being late, is increasing the deadline in the first place. For example, if you are planning to be there at 7pm, tell her to meet you at 7:30pm. Yes, you might be early, but at least you will not be late. Also, another trick is to give a range of time: I will be there from 7/7:30. That gives you 30 minutes to be arrive without breaking your promise.

Looking at other women. We all know that it’s practically impossible to stop looking at other women. The problem arises when we get caught. She will not understand our excuses, therefore, most men deny the fact that we do it. Now, she will know that you are lying, which will push your relationship into the “untrusting” spiral. So, here is what you need to do when you get caught: criticise whoever you were looking at (for example, you can say, that you were only looking at her because you realised how much more beautiful your girlfriend is compared to her and how lucky you are to be with her). Alternatively you can say that “does not she have the same nose as our friend called ….”, this will show your partner that your fascination with the stranger was not sexual, but rather informative.

Untidiness. It does not matter if you own the home where you and your partner live, or you own it together – this property is her domain and she is the boss when it comes to how it looks. Most of us who live with a woman, find this out very quickly. We also find out, that on the daily basis, we are given a certain list of simple instructions, that for one reason or another, we miserably fail to do: toilet seat, dishes, toothpaste, shoes, socks etc. The more we forget, the more her role becomes that of a mother – to lecture and teach (which, trust me, you don’t want). Therefore, the easiest thing to do, is take it step by step. First make it a habit to put the toilet seat down, then move to the next challenge. Don’t try and do everything at once – it only leads to more mistakes.

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